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When I get a Friend Request from a random person that I have never met, my antennas go up and I begin sorting with my Reptilian Brain.
Is this person a friend?
Is this person someone that wants to pay for my services?
Is this person someone who could be dangerous or a person that is best for me to avoid?
Commonly in the Self-Help and Self-Development world, gurus and celebrities make the statements that would state that they are meeting and speaking with elite and powerful people in the world.
Due to this statement of their claim as being seen and recognized by those in the seats of government and high levels of business and entertainment, it done to be a way of certifying that they have arrived and are an authority and have power themselves as well, and yet it has become a goal of their followers and supporters.
The experienced shaman will recognize immediately that this person must learn how to become humble in their own life prior to asking for help from a place of poverty, which in doing so they will be required to be extremely humble and to be of devoted service to the shaman and to show more commitment than any wealthy person would be asked to do, just so that they may receive healing and solutions from the shaman.
I did not fall asleep instead I just cried and cried. Finally the sun came up and I knew it was time. I felt this strange calm around me, as if when time itself stops or just slows down, just for me. It was magical and I felt happy. Please understand that no one really knows how they are going to die in this world except for people who are about to commit suicide, they know, and they are sure. Thinking about all of those people out there that were supposed to be alive the next day were faking and were weak, I was making the choice to leave and I knew what to do.
The Elite know that the systems of our country are their to serve all of us, and yet when a person has low self-esteem and self-confidence and is told to “Stay Quiet! Stay where you are!” Stay Complacent!”, well, weak people follow those rules.
No longer are you weak, you are know someone else, you are informed. You are becoming more and more aware and they (The Power Hungry Ones) are unable to stop you when you voice your concerns. You cannot yell “Fire” in a movie theater but now you can speak with your dollars! You can speak with your social media
Gaslighting: Abusive Relationship Tools that Sociopaths use to Hurt and Manipulate You!
So many times as a hypnotist and dating and relationship coach I witness the behavior of Gaslighting. The term “Gaslighting” has only been around for a short amount of time as that it came about after the study of sociology and psychology for years and years.
After 4 days of working with this very special and unique woman at the clinic, she was able to process and understand that the cause of her addiction was that there was a lack in her life to accept and to find love and deep relaxation and happiness and joy in her life as she had before she was using drugs. She had all of those experiences before using drugs and she had become disconnected from those emotions and abilities.
It is the Brain and Body and I would conclude that your Mind and Brain are two very different and similar things. We will explore that further later in the trainings that we will do together. Yet, when you speak out out loud, in your own language and choice of words about an event or a memory that took place in your life, is that event happening again in reality or is it merely being retold and revisited by you and in your own thoughts, beliefs and emotions?
Recently, I had a friend of a friend trash talk me and attempt to soil my reputation. It happens. People will always try to take shots at others. Still, if your friends are playing politics and trying to be friends with both people without standing up for you….cut them out of your life…they are not your fucking friends!
What about people that are only focused on Pain and avoiding pain? When a person focuses on pain and the avoiding of pain it can be seen as a masochist slashing themselves with a knife or the avoidance of painful situations. They will say a phrase that is similar to this, “Pain is my best teacher” or “Pain keeps me sharp.’
Most persons with PTSD are in search of their next failure in being treated with PTSD. For whatever reason or justification that they have, they are looking for help, to either keep their family or girlfriend off of their back, or an employer who is requiring the Veteran to receive help/treatment or they will be told to move on. The Veteran is merely going through the motions to get someone off their back, and not to get better.
This is their way, of not solving their own problem, but rather, solving themselves from being a problem for someone else. Which is why suicide is such an regular occurrence.
It is human but there is a better way. By asking for help because you want to get better is noble.
Crying out for help so that you can get attention is another.
When you answer the call of a person who is asking for more attention than help, it robs you of your time and energy and sometimes money.
It also robs the person of there Personal Power to take action. Which is more damaging than any challenge they are facing in life right now.
I have seen and witnessed in clients and subjects is that when all three parts of the mind are in sync with each other, the mind goes into a trance or tonic state and can also be a tonic state of immobility, that allows for the direct intake and output of information from a client. Meaning that the Conscious, Unconscious and the Subconscious parts of the mind are all communicating with itself and with the external world that is outside of the mind.
Too many times, people do not listen and paraphrase what the other person has said and reflected respect and admiration back towards the speaker without giving a confirmation of what was said to them. Once confirmed in a respectful manner (note: This does not mean agreeing or accepting, merely reflecting the message back to the other person) you can see how the air in the balloon of anger is then released.
