This is the chant of a scared and fragile ego at any similar.

When you hear that being spoken and demanded for it is the most egotistical and intelligent phrasing of

“What about the whipped cream on top of the shit? I want to learn that!”

If you find a coach or mentor in sales, dating, fitness or spirituality, that teaches just techniques RUNAWAY AS FAST YOU CAN!

A True Master can teach and advise precisely what it is that a new student needs to learn. They may not need to master the whole art form but to teach that student the correct parts and segments of the Master’s Art is what is important. 
Confidence, strength and high self esteem cannot be taught by a damaged man with a microphone on stage.

Seek out your new teacher. Find a way past the techniques and learn the technology.